Masturbating: sexual benefits
Exploring sensual sensations and how the body responds to stimuli starts early on in all human beings. By the time the teen year’s passes, most people are familiar with the way their bodies are put together and they know that their sex organs are very sensitive to the touch and not in an unlikable way.
Even children know that playing with them feels good, despite all the attempts of adults to discourage those activities. It doesn’t really matter how an adult handles this and how many taboos they may invoke, people are naturally very curious about everything and this big mystery is highly noted on the list of priorities. The fact that many adults just refuse to discuss the issue makes everything more interesting.
Every exploration starts with some touching and continues with “masturbation”. For the majority, this is the gateway to sex and the start of the path to the world of sex. It’s a good thing this comes early in our life. Although masturbation and a lack of knowledge about the physical part of the opposite sex are not a good preparation for intercourse, knowing oneself is of course still better than ignorance.
In the Victorian age, an English poet abstained from all manners of sex in order to still be a virgin when he finally married at the age of 28. When the wedding night ended he was tremendously disappointed to find what intercourse actually was. He had hoped for something far greater, especially since he wrote love poems. However, his view of passion was entirely unrealistic and led to a devastating disappointment.
Masturbation can help people learn what they really like when they get to have sex and also what they would like other people do to them. Knowing more about their pleasures makes people more likely to understand the pleasure of others and to want to discover new ways of getting more of it for their partners and for themselves.
Communication of what we would like and what we need is one of the most important things of a successful sex life, since guessing is not a good idea. Imagine what a surprise it would be if you found out that your partner is also interested in masturbation and not in the least shy to share this with you. Shared masturbation can be a very caring act between two people who really know how to give and receive pleasure.
It is worth noting that masturbation is a perfect option during the times when sex is not easy to have. If you don’t feel bound by religious, moral or other duties, then there is no reason to avoid getting rid of all that sexual tension by masturbating. You will definitely feel more relaxed afterwards and the others will profit from your improved mood as well. A pleased person is a person less likely to quarrel and to start conflicts at home or in the office.
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